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  • I'm a writer, photographer, consultant. Age 51. My father was a reporter and editor. Then he became something other than that. He died February 8, 2010 at 87. He was widowed in 2003. His decline started a little earlier. His sister died of Alzheimer's.

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Shu

This is when you want to own steel-toed boots and just start kicking shins, and asses, and pumpkin-headed assholes. You have to believe that this "supervisor" woman has absolutely no personal experience with someone who has the challenges our special folks have.

Wonder what she'll think when she needs someone to actually CARE for her. Hope they have some good medication for her then!

There's definitely little or no heart in the system you are dealing with. It really upsets me that your Dad, AND you, have had all this extra drama and stupidity on top of dealing with the heartbreaking evolution of this mean thieving disease.

My daughter and I are constantly taken aback by the ignorance of so many in the health-care "system" who are totally clueless about the effects of Alzheimer's. What malpractice those Alzheimer's patients must be subjected to who do not have an advocating relative or friend stomping their foot and demanding that proper care be taken. Even then, with an advocate, those who assume authority in their ignorance can override the right thing.

I am so upset with what has been done to your father in his situation by "those in authority". I hope you DO kick ass and give out names. It is horrible.

Shu

Julie

Yeah!!!!! While they are bent over from the butt-kicking, I
want to be next in line to kick butts. There is nothing like
a good mad on to get motivated, right? Ultimately though, I'm
glad you have decided to go the nursing home route for your dad.
I think things will all be a little happier, if not less expensive. Carry on, soldier.

Cathy

Hi Alan. Now you know how these decisions are made. So many decisions are made as an effort to get away from bad stuff rather than making a decision to move in a particular direction for the best reasons. It must be what must be.

If you ever need help in your efforts to make the system work better, just let me know what, if anything, I can do to help your efforts.

Best wishes to you and your Dad. I hope the holidays and the new year (and new direction), bring you peace.

Cathy

Alan G. Ampolsk

Thanks to all.

Per my latest, I'm now trying to restrain myself (not always a comfortable thing) and wait to see what the CASA system actually produces. I'm suspicious of the supervisor's motives, but she may not be the one to decide.

In any event, I'll know soon enough.

And of course, I'll keep you all posted.

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